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David E. Ryan's avatar

Very much looking forward to the second part of this. I definitely identify with the "bad with money" stigma and how paralyzing it has been throughout my life. Completely resonate with high resistance to things that are good for me. Thanks for putting this all in a very concise manner.

I've tried the Mo Money Day exercise...but get stuck at step one. I can never think of anything that I can provide that is income-generating, although I know that is most likely my own limiting beliefs.

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Matthew Eaton's avatar

I totally have this issue and it is deeper rooted than even just merely having emotional issues to it.

My mother sold "my services" off to my grandfather when I was 13. Some very horrible things happened to me during that week that I won't share with anyone, but one of the outcomes of this was to make sure I was never worth anything again - that I provided zero value to the point I couldn't be sold again. Money was wrong and evil and if I ended up homeless, I would be far better off than having to endure that again to make money.

That, of course, is survival brain and I get that. It doesn't serve me and I have to keep working against that because of the primal fear involved (that betrayal of trust and the lack of faith my own abilities). Much like what you are proposing in exposure therapy steps (open an account, sell one thing, so on and so on), it is vital to take small steps to open up to something new.

Because there are so many roots that dig deep into us all about money that has nothing to do with money.

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