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Donna Wilson's avatar

The year was 2011. I joined the Travel Hacking Cartel, where I learned about a British Airways promotion. The next year I was able to take my family of four to Europe, as I had always dreamed of. That led to more trips than I could count, and a love of travel for my kids, as well. Go, get out there. No one ever regrets taking the trip. What's the point of hoarding anything if it's not putting you on the path toward realizing your dreams?

Carol Szymanski's avatar

A travel agency billboard in Cambridge, ma in the 80s. GO AWAY. GO AWAY OFTEN.

Marie Anne's avatar

"Spend the miles. Spend your time. Spend your energy, your art, your attention. Don’t Wait for a Finish Line that Keeps Moving." That last line hit hard. Ive learned that spending my energy creates more and my hunch is that applies pretty much across the board; creating more opportunities, money and capacity for attention.

* There's one area where I'm still stuck in the mud; buying clothes. That ain't happening until I get my weight down. I'll spare you the heart surgeries after getting covid and the 3 year journey out of that hole (still climbing). Back to clothes.

Just can't do it. Feeling really good about my progress healthwise. I'm traveling again, getting stronger. But the mirror will have to wait...

Love reading your work Chris.

Ronald McElroy's avatar

Keep up the good work and the positive attitude will take you over the top. In fact, you've already achieved the most difficult part - the attitude of success. Those over-sized clothes are trophies of success. I take the worst of the fits on vacation with me and trash it at my destination. Less packing going home. Vacations are my motivating force even when all I can afford is a day trip down the trolly line.

Carol Szymanski's avatar

Thrifted clothes are always the answer. No matter the question.

Marie Anne's avatar

I'm a designer and have gotten away with wearing black pants and top for 25+ years (use them til they are no longer presentable then use them for painting and yard work). My hubby, however, has had enough.

I get it. Not guilt; new or used you still have to try it on ;)

Ronald McElroy's avatar

Chris, address the issue of priority on fixed budgets. The dentist or Cabo? Paying down credit cards to eliminate interest or racking up more debt in Europe? It must be nice to have the 1%'s options.

The American public is quickly running out of options as wealth is rapidly moving out of the middle and lower classes into the pocket of a tiny minority. And now we begin national debt-slavery to pay off the national debt. It's costing us more than our aggressive militarization and endless war mongering. It's NOT getting better with the two establishment parties. They tighten their choke-hold while picking our pockets - and yet some in the public still identify as R's or D's!?!

Those selling plasma for food salute the insanity! Bring the military home and charge the branches with making actual improvements to the USA with transportation infrastructure, access to unlimited solar energy and the option to shift representative governmental choices back to the public. We need a military that helps America; not pushing more failed regime-change wars and astronomical debt.

Sabine Kirstein's avatar

Thanks for this, Chris. It’s easy to forget that you have to spend, to get. (Accidentally rhyming)

Your book, β€œThe Happiness of Pursuit,” helped me refine my goals. I’m pursuing it now!

Helen's avatar

πŸ’— Don’t wait for a finish line that keeps moving πŸ’—

On Wings Like Eagles's avatar

It sounds great but what if you are like me, recently widowed, pensioner, and mu husband’s estate will barely keep me going until it’s my turn to cross the rainbow and I have no idea when that will be. I don’t see

another option but to live from hand to mouth.

linda driscoll's avatar

You can't take it when you're gone, I'm for living in the moment, especially given the worlds economies these days. Go away, have a blast, have a life

Laurie's avatar

I took my first Cruise this year in May. Best thing I have ever done for myself. I had failed to plan ahead and save points etc... but yes I know have the itch to do more travel and living in the now and not the 'someday' because as we know 'someday' might not come. Do not wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today!!

Susan Jones's avatar

There's nothing sadder than unused art supplies. Use all the things. Make all the art. Buy yourself more as a reward for using them up.

Ruth Hirsch's avatar

Wow! This is me. I'd love to hear more on this subject. Thank you!

Robin Finney's avatar

Quitting my corporate job to follow my dream of traveling the world is the greatest thing I’ve don’t. It hasn’t been easy by any means, but so worth it. Experience is priceless.

When the pandemic hit, I had the thought, β€œif I never get to travel again, I can confidently say that I’ve lived. I’ve traveled to 6 continents and experienced so much all because I chose to live life differently.”

Samuel W.'s avatar

Many people misunderstand the assignment. To them, the amount of money/number of points accumulated is the measure of success/happiness/self-worth. Most just live out their lives tracking that "score" and feeling like mabye something's missing. A few figure it out near the end when it's too late.

Rasheed Hooda's avatar

Funny you write about this now, because I just did s YouTube video this week about delayed gratification.

https://youtu.be/JFNgs0mvyCs?si=h1S20Qy4ITahl2jL

Sorry I missed you in Austin, but it was great to see you in Houston. Stay Blessed

Bailey Reutzel's avatar

Sitting in the airport as we speak, headed off for a month in Europe.

Siobhain Danaher's avatar

Love this Chris - life is for living not waiting to live 😁

Encouragement's avatar

Exactly. So many ppl I've talked to - at retirement, etc. I was a busy consultant, never had time for a wife (Billy Joel song), and they are sad. Self Limiting beliefs. Or I will lose weight when... which is fancy way NOT to do it. There is a famous saying, what good does it do a person to give up the whole world, and lose their soul - you do only have one life, and those points do expire... sometimes you do before they do. I never pursued it, because I found I could get a better deal by just shopping hard, and I was tied (committed :) to a stable life style for the 2 kids we adopted from foster care, and not traveling when my spouse could not. Recently we flew to a pretty place, paid cash (no debt) for everything, and I didn't need to blink - could I have spent more time travel hacking - maybe? But I'd spent 10 years getting to the place where we could just go. The hardest part is having the time, and getting on the same page as the spouse :) Travel hacking easy :)