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David Trotter's avatar

Thank you for this! 15 years ago, I was a burned out pastor trying to pray away my brain problems, and I made some really unhealthy choices as I tried to cope with the chaos within. Ultimately, I checked myself into a hospital for three days and got a brain scan at the Amen Clinic started by Dr. Daniel Amen. Seeing and understanding the activity levels of my brain gave me a completely new understanding of my experience. I started taking an antidepressant and anti anxiety medication that saved and transformed my life. Several years ago, I started to realize that I was not feeling the full spectrum of emotions, so I did quite a bit of work to wean myself off the antidepressant. It sounds weird to say, but I’m actually thankful that I can finally cry again.

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Matthew Eaton's avatar

The way I see it is this: We are a very Protestant view of work and of life. If you can't solve it on your own with hard work, focus, effort, and a little elbow grease, then it is merely Satan tempting you away from the path of hard work.

Remember, we are beings with primal minds using 19th century reasoning to fit in a 21st century world. We feel far before we think. We are a storytelling creature.

And the last one I'll put out there: It is selfish to not ask for help. Not asking for help is a pride issue (and I know because I rarely ask for help because I have too much pride at times) because weakness goes against the Protestant mindset from above.

You can only take care of yourself and if that requires medication and other means to do so, then do so.

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