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Tanya Mozias's avatar

I check all the boxes. I'm an overachiever even when it comes to self-sabotage.

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Aunt Jamey's avatar

I'm very interested to consider the opposite of all these, in growing our natural confidence which is our birthright:

1. Make decisions with 80% assurance. Confident people are comfortable with ambiguity and are willing and accurate guessers.

2. Engage in positive self-talk. Enjoy the "best friend/coach" in your head. You can access your internal wisdom and gain a life coach worth millions!

3. Become a self-care boss. Make a schedule for becoming the healthiest version of yourself and make it fun. Like buying cute tops for the gym!

4. Again- 80%. Not perfection. That's actually industry standard in my field, education. Once a learner has reached 80% mastery of a skill, move on.

5. Dwell on possibility! Emily Dickinson has an AMAZING poem about this: I Dwell in Possibility. https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/52197/i-dwell-in-possibility-466

6. Setting boss boundaries with a smile. Have some scripts ready. Manners are your best weapon. "Thank you for thinking about me with this opportunity. I'm not able to commit at this time. I'm wishing you the best."

7. Your internal best friend will keep the high fives coming. Look nowhere else. You've got plenty from the Source of your divinely created being.

8. Engages with new ideas with the confidence of a master surfer. You're riding momentum and you're in charge. Take what serves you and ignore the rest.

9. Share emotional intimacy in containers marked by respect. And if you don't have any solid relationships yet, go to a local open mic in your community and grab that microphone and make a joke about your problems. You new friends will find you and hunt you down after the show.

10. Listen to your grudges and resentment. What lesson is your body trying to teach you? Learn the lesson and the voice of resentment fades naturally.

11. Surround yourself with outrageously positive people (like me! Sign up for my Substack, From Fawn to Fearless!) who pump you full of energy and lift you up. Always a great way to end up feeling amazing!!

12. Make social media work for you. What's your big idea? What gems do you have to share with the world? There has never been a bigger opportunity for shining your light.

13. Figure out your most important tasks and commit to doing them. Break the tasks into small chunks. Celebrate every little victory. It's all about momentum, friends. Like Tesla said, it's all about energy.

14. Practice unconditional love. Base your self-worth on your own level of presence. You are divinely created and you were born to have everything you want. All you have to do is show up fully for the present moment.

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